TGIF!
This week has been one roller coaster ride! It started out extremely stressful with my daughter and her boy friend giving us a bunch of problems. My 24 year-old-daughter has been staying with my boy friend and I for quite a few months now. We are trying to help her get on her feet so she could get a job, a place of her own, and her daughter back. Lately her priorities have not been the same as ours. She always seems to have some reason to do or not do what ever it is that she is suppose to or not suppose to do. I have a feeling that it is going to come down to a tough love moment where I have to tell her that she has to go. If she was only putting more effort into getting her life together, but she would rather spend the day with friends or her boyfriend then look for work. Her deadline is Sept. 1, 2008 and if she doesn't have a job then she has to leave, even if she doesn't have anywhere to go. It's not my problem after that. I've done what I could to help her, but there comes a time when she's got to start helping herself. Time will tell, maybe things will work out for the best. On top of this she has been haveing problems with her boyfriend, I can see the signs of him being very controling and might ever be violent toward her, but she's in love. The stress level around here dropped 200 percent the day that he violated his parole and went back to prison for a few months. She insists on giving him another chance, even after finding out that he has been cheating on her all this time. I'm hoping that she will find someone better before he gets out.
My boss went on vacation thursday and work has been extremely busy. I have some of her job duties to do while she is gone. I love it when I'm busy at work, time seems to fly by. I'll tell you what though, I was looking forward to thisweekend to get some time off and maybe even do some relaxing. I haven't been able to relax in weeks, I don't know if I remember how to do it. For the last few weeks I've pleaded with them at work to "please don't send me home."
Everyone have a nice weekend and I'll write some more on Sunday. Tommorrow is my boyfriends day on the computer. I hate having to share. I'm hoping that one day we can get two computers.
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