You do have a Contact Panel on your page (if that's what you mean) you just can't see it but others can - you don't need to send pm's to yourself or ask yourself to be a friend do you? LOL
This subject is on today's Hill Home Page. Seems like a lot of people think they have no Contact Panel even though they do. Maybe it would be easier if the programers just fix it so that it shows up to where we can see it on our own pages.