Last night Diane and I watched a documentary about indigenous men in canada who beat their wives an family, they had formed a group of similar men to try and stop the abuse, I said what they need is a big vicious man to beat the hell out of them so they know what it feels like, Diane disagreed and said probably their own father had already done that, it wont cure them, she was correct, I remembered what happened with me years ago at school, we had a vicious bully who preyed on kids smaller than himself or kids he thought were cowards and wouldn’t fight back, I wasn’t a coward but I would never fight, one day I saw him dragging my younger brother across the play ground by his hair, I went berserk and beat the living daylights out of him so badly he had to be hospitalized for 2/3 weeks,I was a very powerful lad, a teacher pulled me off him, I didn’t realise what I had done his face was a bloody mess when the ambulance took him away, when he came back to school weeks later he carried on where he left off bullying younger kids, but he never touched my brother again and stayed clear of me, he didn’t learn a lesson but I did, I have never lost my temper since and will never lose it again hopefully ,it isn’t a nice feeling to realise you had lost control of your self, I never lived with violence at home when I was a youngster, never saw my father hurt my mother or brothers apart from spanking their and my bum for miss behaving and being boys was quite often, I never got a spanking I didn’t deserve nor did my  brothers,  spanking is not abuse, we all need discipline----------- what ever our age