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Don’t Want To Be A Bother….?
Posted On: 06/18/2021 20:56:46

How many times have you said that you didn't want to be a bother” to a friend, when you know they are going through an unusually busy or stressful time. You would like to do something to help, but then wondered what you could do that would be helpful. Even a phone call would interrupt their busy day, and that could just be annoying.

Many years ago, when your children were quite young, we had an experience that I’ll never forget. My husband had a serious accident at our new home under construction. I had just returned home to put our children to bed, when the doorbell rang. I didn’t want to see or talk to anyone, especially someone who would be trying to sell me something that I didn’t need. However, after about the fourth chime from the door, I opened the door a wee bit and recognized the callers. The gentleman worked in our office, and he and his wife had travelled across the city to bring us a box of homemade cookies for the children’s lunch bags. They told me that they didn’t know if they could be much help to our family but at least they could make cookies. I have never forgotten that kind gesture, and often thought about it when I didn’t know how I could help a friend or neighbor.

During the past two months, we have been the recipients of many gestures of kindness, and from a variety of sources. Unexpected phone calls from our family doctor, who thought I would be in “information overload” regarding my husband’s health challenges, and needing answers or suggestions in my attempt to sort through the events. Kind and patient responses from nurses and hospital staff gave us assurance that we were at the right place at the right time. Telephone calls, text messages, and emails that we have received from family and friends in faraway places, and from treasured cyber friends whom I will never meet in person have touched us deeply. Words seem to be so inadequate to express my appreciation for the thoughtful gestures and encouragement that we have received. To my precious social media friends, I have not replied to many individuals, but I’m hoping that they will find this blog here or on my MRB’s Talking Fingers website.

My husband is home now, and gaining strength every day. Each day we view our favorite green valley in the height of the season of spring. Summer is just around the corner, and we are blessed.


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07/10/2021 08:52:25

May your blessings continue to multiply.  I send you my prayers for a complete recovery in a timely manner.  Thank you for sharing this with us.



06/27/2021 10:22:18

Always nice to read about your adventures in your blog, Mona.  Glad o hear hubby is getting strongerr every day - being home is so helpful in the healing process.  Prayers for you and  your hubby are being sent.  Thanks for sharing with us the latest goings on in your life.  Please keep us informed.  Big hugs and prayers.



06/22/2021 14:07:48

No place like HOME -:) Thrilled to read this today. Sending wishes your way for a beautiful week. 



06/21/2021 21:32:30


EunHye wrote:

Hi Mona,  I am glad your husband health is getting better. In the past few days I am so worried I didn't see your blog .  I know you're responds immediately by sending an email .  Thank you so much for updating .  You are such a good friend to me and I really missed you.  Happy Father's Day to your husband.  Big Hugs and Kisses 

Thank you for your kind comments; you have learned that it is hard to keep me quiet for very long. Our celebration of Father's Day was very special, even though we are still restricted from celebrating with the whole family and bunch of friends. It is always my intention to keep in touch with my dear cyber friends, but at times, LIFE interrupts our good intentions.



06/21/2021 21:26:03


nightfall wrote:

I'm so glad to hear this good news. Happy your husband is home. (((Hugs)))

Thanks for your comment; home is a precious place after 'surviving' those health challenges. We can never assume only good happenings!!1




06/21/2021 01:34:48

Hi Mona,  I am glad your husband health is getting better. In the past few days I am so worried I didn't see your blog .  I know you're responds immediately by sending an email .  Thank you so much for updating .  You are such a good friend to me and I really missed you.  Happy Father's Day to your husband.  Big Hugs and Kisses

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06/19/2021 04:24:30

I'm so glad to hear this good news. Happy your husband is home. (((Hugs)))




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