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A Tribute to Moms
Posted On 05/06/2009 10:38:16

How beautiful everything is arranged by nature. Just as soon as a child enters the world it finds a mother ready to take care of it. Luckily mothers have been relieved of such duties as milking cows and making butter so they've  been able to move up to family economist, child psychologist, career person and still cook too. Mothers are the most unselfish, the most responsible people in the world. Motherhood is not a matter of bearing children; that is a biological event. Motherhood is diapers and bottles; clinging hands and endless questions; joyful tears and foolish fears. But, most of all, motherhood is an opportunity to influence the transformation of a child into a remarkable human being. Just as breast milk cannot be duplicated, neither can a mother. No one like one's mother ever lived. Mothering is an art which demands affection, gentleness and understanding; firmness, restraint and sacrifice. At the heart of a mother's sacrifice is the knowledge that one day she must set her child free. A mother is not a person to lean on, but a person to make leaning unnecessary. A mother achieves more than a hundred teachers. Where do mothers learn all the things they tell their children not to do? What on earth would children do if they didn't have mother to help them through their troubles? A mother understands what a child does not say. Oh, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe, of being able to pour out words and thoughts and know that she would take them and sift them, keeping what was worth keeping and parting with the rest of all the home remedies. Having mother there is best.  As a mother you serve much longer than you expected. Now, as always, the most automated appliance in the house is you. After all, who wants to try to make pies like mother makes when it's so much simpler to let mother make them in the first place! To bear and rear; to cook and clean; to be instantly available without being underfoot; no wonder the profession is free of male competition. It is such a grand thing to be the mother of a mother that the world calls you grandmother. And, just about the time a woman thinks her work is done, she becomes both a grandmother and a grand baby sitter. A mother never realizes her children are no longer children. No matter how old they are, a mother still watches for signs of improvement. In the eyes of its mother every beetle is a gazelle. Mom is a much more magical word than Mother. It holds memories of sunlit rooms and laughter and love beyond the dreams of anyone. Memories, too, of the push and tug it took to keep you up to par, to make you more than you thought you could be. And memories of advice that did not fall on deaf ears. I heard you then, and I hear you now. And I thank you, from the bottom of my heart... I love you Mom

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An 8th Grade Education
Posted On 01/29/2009 16:04:43

KIND OF SHOWS WHAT ISN'T TAUGHT TODAY. WHAT ARE OUR PRIORITIES? This is interesting... What it took to get an 8th grade education in 1895... Remember when grandparents and great-grandparents stated that they only had an 8th grade education? Well, check this out. Could any of us have passed the 8th grade in 1895? This is the eighth-grade final exam from 1895 in Salina , Kansas , USA . It was taken from the original document on file at the Smokey Valley Genealogical Society and Library in Salina , and reprinted by the Salina Journal. 8th Grade Final Exam: Salina , KS - 1895

Grammar (Time, one hour) 1. Give nine rules for the use of capital letters. 2. Name the parts of speech and define those that have no modifications. 3. Define verse, stanza and paragraph 4. What are the principal parts of a verb? Give principal parts of 'lie,''play,' and 'run.' 5. Define case; illustrate each case. 6 What is punctuation? Give rules for principal marks of punctuation. 7 - 10. Write a composition of about 150 words and show therein that you understand the practical use of the rules of grammar.

 Arithmetic (Time,1 hou r 15 minutes) 1. Name and define the Fundamental Rules of Arithmetic. 2. A wagon box is 2 ft. Deep, 10 feet long, and 3 ft. Wide. How many bushels of wheat will it hold? 3. If a load of wheat weighs 3,942 lbs., what is it worth at 50cts/bushel, deducting 1,050 lbs. For tare? 4. District No 33 has a valuation of $35,000. What is the necessary levy to carry on a school seven months at $50 per month, and have $104 for incidentals? 5. Find the cost of 6,720 lbs. Coal at $6.00 per ton. 6. Find the interest of $512.60 for 8 months and 18 days at 7 percent. 7. What is the cost of 40 boards 12 inches wide and 16 ft.. Long at $20 per metre? 8. Find bank discount on $300 for 90 days (no grace) at 10 percent. 9. What is the cost of a square farm at $15 per acre, the distance of which is 640 rods? 10. Write a Ban k Check, a Promissory Note, and a Receipt

U.S. History (Time, 45 minutes) 1. Give the epochs into which U.S. History is divided 2. Give an account of the discovery of America by Columbus 3. Relate the causes and results of the Revolutionary War. 4. Show the territorial growth of the United States 5. Tell what you can of the history of Kansas 6. Describe three of the most prominent battles of the Rebellion. 7. Who were the following: Morse, Whitney, Fulton , Bell , Lincoln , Penn, and Howe? 8. Name events connected with the following dates: 1607, 1620, 1800, 1849, 1865.

 Orthography (Time, one hour) [Do we even know what this is??] 1. What is meant by the following: alphabet, phonetic, orthography, etymology, syllabication 2. What are elementary sounds? How classified? 3. What are the following, and give examples of each: trigraph, subvocals, diphthong, cognate letters, linguals& nbsp; 4. Give four substitutes for caret 'u.' (HUH?) 5. Give two rules for spelling words with final 'e.' Name two exceptions under each rule. 6. Give two uses of silent letters in spelling. Illustrate each. 7. Define the following prefixes and use in connection with a word: bi, dis-mis, pre, semi, post, non, inter, mono, sup. 8. Mark diacritically and divide into syllables the following, and name the sign that indicates the sound: card, ball, mercy, sir, odd, cell, rise, blood, fare, last. 9. Use the following correctly in sentences: cite, site, sight, fane, f ain, feign, vane , vain, vein, raze, raise, rays. 10. Write 10 words frequently mispronounced and indicate pronunciation by use of diacritical marks and by syllabication.

Geography (Time, one hour) 1 What is climate? Upon what does climate depend? 2. How do you account for the extremes of climate in Kansas ? 3. Of what use are rivers? Of what use is the ocean? 4. Describe the mountains of North America 5. Name and describe the following: Monrovia , Odessa , Denver , Manitoba , Hecla , Yukon , St. Helena, Juan Fernandez, Aspinwall and Orinoco 6. Name and locate the principal trade centers of the U.S. Name all the republics of Europe and give the capital of each. 8. Why is the Atlantic Coast colder than the Pacific in the same latitude? 9. Describe the process by which the water of the ocean returns to the sources of rivers. 10. Describe the movements of the earth. Give the inclination of the earth.

 Notice that the exam took FIVE HOURS to complete. Gives the saying 'he only had an 8th grade education' a whole new meaning, doesn't it?! Also shows you how poor our education system has become and, NO, I don't have the answers!


This is What Christmas is All About
Posted On 12/24/2008 09:43:55
We all need to read more stories like this,to get the real reason behind Christmas giving. Its not about the gifts we recieve,or the cost, but, what comes from the heart. That is what counts, and that is what Christmas
is all about Love. Have a very Blessed Christmas and a Happy New Year !

This is what Christmas is all about...

Better bundle up - the goose bumps will freeze you!  I think I need to read this every year at Christmas.

Pa never had much compassion for the lazy or those who squandered their means and then never had enough for the necessities.  But for those who were genuinely in need, his heart was as big as all outdoors.  It was from him that I learned the greatest joy in life comes from giving, not from receiving.            &nb sp;                         &nb sp;    
            &nb sp;    

It was Christmas Eve 1881.  I was fifteen years old and feeling like the world had caved in on me because there just hadn't been enough money to buy me the rifle that I'd wanted for Christmas.  We did the chores early that night for some reason.  I just figured Pa wanted a little extra time so we could read in the Bible.


After supper was over I took my boots off and stretched out in front of the fireplace and waited for Pa to get down the old Bible.  I was still feeling sorry for myself and, to be honest, I wasn't in much of a mood to read Scriptures. But Pa didn't get the Bible, instead he bundled up again and went outside. I couldn't figure it out because we had already done all the chores. I didn't worry about it long though, I was too busy wallowing in self-pity.  Soon Pa came back in.  It was a cold clear night out and there was ice in his beard. "Come on, Matt," he said. "Bundle up good, it's cold out tonight." I was really upset then. Not only wasn't I getting the rifle for Christmas, but now Pa was dragging me out in the cold and for no earthly reason that I could see.  We'd already done all the chores and I couldn't think of anything else that needed doing, especially not on a night like this.  But I knew Pa was not very patient at one dragging one's feet when he'd told them to do something, so I got up and put my boots back on and got my cap, coat and mittens.  Ma gave me a mysterious smile as I opened the door to leave the house.  Something was up, but I didn't know what..            &nb sp;                         &nb sp;                       

Outside, I became even more dismayed. There in front of the house was the work team, already hitched to the big sled.  Whatever it was we were going to do wasn't going to be a short, quick, little job.  I could tell. We never hitched up this sled unless we were going to haul a big load.  Pa was already up on the seat, reins in hand.  I reluctantly climbed up beside him.  The cold was already biting at me.  I wasn't happy.  When I was on, Pa pulled the sled around the house and stopped by the woodshed.  He got off and I followed. "I think we'll put on the high sideboards," he said.  "Here, help me."  The high sideboards!  It had been a bigger job than I wanted to do with just the low sides on, but whatever it was we were going to do would be a lot bigger with the high side boards on.            &nb sp;                         &nb sp;                    

After we had exchanged the sideboards, Pa went into the shed and came out with an armload of wood - the wood I'd spent all summer hauling down from the mountain and then all fall sawing into blocks and splitting. What was he doing?  Finally I said something.  "Pa," I asked, "what are you doing?"  You been by the Widow Jensen's lately?" he asked. The Widow Jensen lived about two miles down the road.  Her husband had died a year or so before and left her with three children, the oldest being eight.  Sure, I'd been by, but so what?           &nbs p;            & nbsp;           &nbs p;            & nbsp;   

Yeah," I said, "Why?"           &nb sp;                         &nb sp;            

"I rode by just today," Pa said. "Little Jakey was out in the woodpile trying to find a few chips. They're out of wood, Matt."  That was all he said and then he turned and went back into the woodshed for another armload of wood. I followed him.  We loaded the sled so high that I began to wonder if the horses would be able to pull it.  Finally, Pa called a halt to our loading, then we went to the smoke house and Pa took down a big ham and a side of bacon. He handed them to me and told me to put them in the sled and wait.  When he returned he was carrying a sack of flour over his right shoulder and a smaller sack of something in his left hand. "What's in the little sack?" I asked.  Shoes, they're out of shoes.  Little Jakey just had gunny sacks wrapped around his feet when he was out in the woodpile this morning.  I got the children a little candy too.  It just wouldn't be Christmas without a little candy."
            &nb sp;                         &nb sp;                   

We rode the two miles to Widow Jensen's pretty much in silence.  I tried to think through what Pa was doing.  We didn't have much by worldly standards.  Of course, we did have a big woodpile, though most of what was left now was still in the form of logs that I would have to saw into blocks and split before we could use it.  We also had meat and flour, some we could spare, but I knew we didn't have any money, so why was Pa buying them shoes and candy?  Really, why was he doing any of this?  Widow Jensen had closer neighbors than us; it shouldn't have been our concern.

We came in from the blind side of the Jensen house and unloaded the wood as quietly as possible, then we took the meat and flour and shoes to the door.  We knocked.  The door opened a crack and a timid voice said,  "Who is it?"  "Lucas Miles, Ma'am and my son, Matt, could we come in for a bit?"    

Widow Jensen opened the door and let us in.  She had a blanket wrapped around her shoulders.  The children were wrapped in another and were sitting in front of the fireplace by a very small fire that hardly gave off any heat at all.  Widow Jensen fumbled with a match and finally lit the lamp.            &nb sp;                         &nb sp;                         

"We brought you a few things, Ma'am," Pa said and set down the sack of flour.  I put the meat on the table.  Then Pa handed her the sack that had the shoes in it.  She opened it hesitantly and took the shoes out one pair at a time.  There was a pair for her and one for each of the children - sturdy shoes, the best, shoes that would last.  I watched her carefully.  She bit her lower lip to keep it from trembling and then tears filled her eyes and started to run down her cheeks.  She looked up at Pa like she wanted to say something, but it wouldn't come out.

"We brought a load of wood too, Ma'am," Pa said.  He turned to me and said, "Matt, go bring in enough to last awhile.  Let's get that fire up to size and heat this place up."  I wasn't the same person when I went back out to bring in the wood.  I had a big lump in my throat and as much as I hate to admit it, there were tears in my eyes too.  In my mind I kept seeing those three kids huddled around the fireplace and their mother standing there with tears running down her cheeks with so much gratitude in her heart that she couldn't speak.

My heart swelled within me and a joy that I'd never known before, filled my soul.  I'd given at Christmas many times, but never when it had made so much difference.  I could see we were literally saving the lives of these people.

I soon had the fire blazing and everyone's spirits soared.  The kids started giggling when Pa handed them each a piece of candy and Widow Jensen looked on with a smile that probably hadn't crossed her face for a long time.  She finally turned to us. "God bless you," she said. "I know the Lord has sent you.  The children and I have been praying that he would send one of his angels to spare us."

In spite of myself, the lump returned to my throat and the tears welled up in my eyes again.  I'd never thought of Pa in those terms before, but after Widow Jensen mentioned it I could see that it was probably true.  I was sure that a better man than Pa had never walked the earth.  I started remembering all the times he had gone out of his way for Ma, me and many others.  The list seemed endless as I thought on it.      

Pa insisted that everyone try on the shoes before we left.  I was amazed when they all fit and I wondered how he had known what sizes to get.  Then I guessed that if he was on an errand for the Lord that the Lord would make sure he got the right sizes. 

Tears were running down Widow Jensen's face again when we stood up to leave.  Pa took each of the kids in his big arms and gave them a hug.  They clung to him and didn't want us to go.  I could see that they missed their Pa and I was glad that I still had mine.            &nb sp;           

At the door Pa turned to Mrs. Jensen and said, "The Mrs. wanted me to have you and the children over for Christmas dinner tomorrow.  The turkey will be more than the three of us can eat and a man can get cantankerous if he has to eat turkey for too many meals.  We'll be by for you about eleven.  It'll be nice to have some little ones around again.  Matt here, hasn't been little for quite a spell."  I was the youngest.  My two brothers and two sisters had all married and had moved away.      

Widow Jensen nodded and said, "Thank you, Brother Miles.  I don't have to say, May the Lord bless you. I know for certain that He will."         
Out on the sled I felt a warmth that came from deep within and I didn't even notice the cold.  When we had gone a ways, Pa turned to me and said, "Matt, I want you to know something.  Your ma and me have been tucking a little money away here and there all year so we could buy that rifle for you, but we didn't have quite enough. Then yesterday a man who owed me a little money from years back came by to make things square.  Your ma and me got real excited, thinking that now we could get you that rifle. I started into town this morning to do just that, but on the way I saw little Jakey out scratching in the woodpile with his feet wrapped in those gunny sacks and I knew what I had to do.  Son, I spent the money for shoes and a little candy for those children. I hope you understand."

I understood and my eyes became wet with tears again.  I understood very well and I was so glad Pa had done it. Now the rifle seemed very low on my list of priorities.  Pa'd given me a lot more.  He'd given me the look on Widow Jensen's face and the radiant smiles of her three children.

For the rest of my life, whenever I saw any of the Jensens or split a block of wood, I remembered, and remembering brought back that same joy I felt riding home beside Pa that night. Pa had given me much more than a rifle that night, he had given me the best Christmas of my life. 

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Santa and Sarah
Posted On 12/17/2008 10:03:29

Santa and Sarah

Three years ago, a little boy and his grandmother came to see Santa at the Mayfair Mall in Wisconsin. The child climbed up on his lap, holding a picture of a little girl.

"Who is this?" asked Santa, smiling. "Your friend? Your sister?'"

"Yes, Santa,' he replied. "My sister, Sarah, who is very sick," he said sadly.

Santa glanced over at the grandmother who was waiting nearby, and saw her dabbing her eyes with a tissue. "She wanted to come with me to see you, oh, so very much, Santa!" the child exclaimed. "She misses you," he added softly.

Santa tried to be cheerful and encouraged a smile to the boy's face, asking him what he wanted Santa to bring him for Christmas.

When they finished their visit, the Grandmother came over to help the child off his lap, and started to say something to Santa, but halted.

"What is it?" Santa asked warmly.

"Well, I know it's really too much to ask you, Santa, but.." the old woman began, shooing her grandson over to one of Santa's elves to collect the little gift which Santa gave all his young visitors. "The girl in the photograph... my granddaughter well, you see ... she has leukemia and isn't expected to make it even through the holidays," she said through tear-filled eyes. "Is there any way, Santa, any possible way that you could come see Sarah? That's all she's asked for, for Christmas, is to see Santa."

Santa blinked and swallowed hard and told the woman to leave information with his elves as to where Sarah was, and he would see what he could do. Santa thought of little else the rest of that afternoon. He knew what he had to do. "What if it were MY child lying in that hospital bed, dying," he thought with a sinking heart, "This is the least I can do."

When Santa finished visiting with all the boys and girls that evening, he retrieved from his helper the name of the hospital where Sarah was staying. He asked the assistant location manager how to get to Children's Hospital.

"Why?" Rick asked, with a puzzled look on his face.

Santa relayed to him the conversation with Sarah's grandmother earlier that day.

"C'mon.....I'll take you there." Rick said softly. Rick drove them to the hospital and came inside with Santa. They found out which room Sarah was in. A pale Rick said he would wait out in the hall.

Santa quietly peeked into the room through the half-closed door and saw little Sarah on the bed.

The room was full of what appeared to be her family; there was the Grandmother and the girl's brother he had met earlier that day. A woman whom he guessed was Sarah's mother stood by the bed, gently pushing Sarah's thin hair off her forehead. And another woman who he discovered later was Sarah's aunt, sat in a chair near the bed with a weary, sad look on her face. They were talking quietly, and Santa could sense the warmth and closeness of the family, and their love and concern for Sarah.

Taking a deep breath, and forcing a smile on his face, Santa entered the room, bellowing a hearty, "Ho, ho, ho!"

"Santa!" shrieked little Sarah weakly, as she tried to escape her bed to run to him, IV tubes intact.

Santa rushed to her side and gave her a warm hug. A child the tender age of his own son -- 9 years old -- gazed up at him with wonder and excitement. Her skin was pale and her short tresses bore telltale bald patches from the effects of chemotherapy. But all he saw when he looked at her was a pair of huge, blue eyes. His heart melted, and he had to force himself to choke back tears. Though his eyes were riveted upon Sarah's face, he could hear the gasps and quiet sobbing of the women in the room.

As he and Sarah began talking, the family crept quietly to the bedside one by one, squeezing Santa's shoulder or his hand gratefully, whispering "Thank you" as they gazed sincerely at him with shining eyes. Santa and Sarah talked and talked, and she told him excitedly all the toys she wanted for Christmas, assuring him she'd been a very good girl that year.

As their time together dwindled, Santa felt led in his spirit to pray for Sarah, and asked for permission from the girl's mother. She nodded in agreement and the entire family circled around Sarah's bed, holding hands. Santa looked intensely at Sarah and asked her if she believed in angels.

"Oh, yes, Santa... I do!" she exclaimed.

"Well, I'm going to ask that angels watch over you." he said. Laying one hand on the child's head, Santa closed his eyes and prayed. He asked that God touch little Sarah, and heal her body from this disease. He asked that angels minister to her, watch and keep her. And when he finished praying, still with eyes closed, he started singing, softly, "Silent Night, Holy Night.... all is calm, all is bright..."

"The family joined in, still holding hands, smiling at Sarah, and crying tears of hope, tears of joy for this moment, as Sarah beamed at them all..

When the song ended, Santa sat on the side of the bed again and held Sarah's frail, small hands in his own. "Now, Sarah," he said authoritatively, "you have a job to do, and that is to concentrate on getting well. I want you to have fun playing with your friends this summer, and I expect to see you at my house at Mayfair Mall this time next year!"

He knew it was risky proclaiming that to this little girl who had terminal cancer, but he "had" to. He had to give her the greatest gift he could -- not dolls or games or toys -- but the gift of HOPE.

"Yes, Santa!" Sarah exclaimed, her eyes bright. He leaned down and kissed her on the forehead and left the room.

Out in the hall, the minute Santa's eyes met Rick's, a look passed between them and they wept unashamed.

Sarah's mother and grandmother slipped out of the room quickly and rushed to Santa's side to thank him.

"My only child is the same age as Sarah," he explained quietly. "This is the least I could do." They nodded with understanding and hugged him.

One year later, Santa Mark was again back on the set in Milwaukee for his six-week, seasonal job which he so loves to do. Several weeks went by and then one day a child came up to sit on his lap.

"Hi, Santa! Remember me?!"

"Of course, I do," Santa proclaimed (as he always does), smiling down at her. After all, the secret to being a "good" Santa is to always make each child feel as if they are the "only" child in the world at that moment.

"You came to see me in the hospital last year!"

Santa's jaw dropped. Tears immediately sprang in his eyes, and he grabbed this little miracle and held her to his chest. "Sarah!" he exclaimed. He scarcely recognized her, for her hair was long and silky and her cheeks were rosy -- much different from the little girl he had visited just a year before. He looked over and saw Sarah's mother and grandmother in the sidelines smiling and waving and wiping their eyes.

That was the best Christmas ever for Santa Claus.

He had witnessed --and been blessed to be instrumental in bringing about -- this miracle of hope. This precious little child was healed. Cancer-free. Alive and well. He silently looked up to Heaven and humbly whispered, "Thank you, Father. 'Tis a very, Merry Christmas!"

If you believe in miracles you will pass this on...I did!

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Final Inspection
Posted On 11/09/2008 10:09:25

MAY THE SUN SHINE DOWN ON YOU ON REMEMBERANCE DAY 


THE  FINAL  INSPECTION

The soldier stood and faced God, 

Which must always come to pass. 

  
He hoped his shoes were shining, 

Just as brightly as his brass. 



  
"Step forward now, you soldier, 

How shall I deal with you? 

  
Have you always turned the other cheek? 

  
To My Church have you been true?" 



  
The soldier squared his shoulders and said, 

"No, Lord, I guess I ain't. 

  
Because those of us who carry guns, 

Can't always be a saint. 



  
I've had to work most Sundays, 

And at times my talk was tough. 

  
And sometimes I've been violent, 

Because the world is awfully rough. 



  
But, I never took a penny, 

That wasn't mine to keep... 

  
Though I worked a lot of overtime, 

When the bills got just too steep. 



  
And I never passed a cry for help, 

Though at times I shook with fear. 

  
And sometimes, God, forgive me, 

I've wept unmanly tears. 



  
I know I don't deserve a place, 

Among the people here. 

  
They never wanted me around, 

Except to calm their fears. 



  
If you've a place for me here, Lord, 

It needn't be so grand. 

  
I never expected or had too much, 

But if you don't, I'll understand. 



  
There was a silence all around the throne, 

Where the saints had often trod. 

  
As the soldier waited quietly, 

For the judgment of his God. 



  
"Step forward now, you soldier, 

You've borne your burdens well. 

  
Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets; 

You've done your time in Hell." 


  
~Author Unknown~ 




    It's the Soldier, not the reporter WHO has given us the freedom of the press. 

  
It's the Soldier, not the poet, WHO has given us the freedom of speech. 

  
It's the Soldier  WHO  ensures our right to Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness,

Not the politicians. 

  
It's the Soldier who salutes the flag, WHO serves beneath the flag, AND whose coffin is draped by the flag. 

  


    If you care to offer the smallest token of recognition and appreciation for the Military,

PLEASE pray for our men and women

WHO have served and are currently serving our country

AND pray for those who have given the ultimate sacrifice for freedom. 


 God bless our soldiers, sailors and airmen, past and present. 

 

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The Veteran
Posted On 10/15/2008 05:35:16

I just wanted to get the day over with and........... go down to Smokey's for a few cold ones. Sneaking a look at my watch, I saw the time, 1655. Five minutes to go before the cemetery gates are closed for the day. Full dress was hot in the August sun. Oklahoma summertime was as bad as ever -- the heat and humidity at the same level -- both too high.

 

I saw the car pull into the drive, '69 or '70 model Cadillac Deville, looked factory-new. It pulled into the parking lot at a snail's pace. An old woman got out so slow I thought she was paralyzed. She had a cane and a sheaf of flowers, about four or five bunches as best I could tell.

 

I couldn't help myself. The thought came unwanted, and left a slightly bitter taste: 'She's going to spend an hour, and for this old soldier...my hip hurts like hell and I'm ready to get out of here right now!' But for this day my duty was to assist anyone coming in. Kevin would lock the 'In' gate and if.... I could just hurry the old biddy along, we might make the last half of happy hour at Smokey's. I broke Post Attention. My hip made gritty noises when I took the first step and the pain went up a notch. I must have made a real military sight; middle-aged man with a small pot-gut and half a limp, in Marine Full Dress Uniform, which had lost its razor crease about 30 minutes after I began the watch...at the cemetery.

 

I stopped in front of her, halfway up the walk. She looked up at me with an old woman's squint. 'Ma'am may I assist you in any way?' She took long enough to answer. 'Yes, son. Can you carry these flowers? I seem to be moving a tad slow these days.'

 

'My pleasure Ma'am.' Well, it wasn't too much of a lie.

 

She looked again. 'Marine, where were you stationed?' ' Vietnam , Ma'am. Ground-pounder. '69 to '71.'

 

She looked at me closer. 'Wounded in action, I see.  Well done, Marine, I'll be as quick as I can.'

 

I lied a little bigger, 'No hurry, Ma'am.'

 

She smiled............ and winked at me. 'Son, I'm 85-years old and I can tell a lie from a long way off. Let's get this done, might be the last time I can do this. My name's Joanne Wieserman, and I've a few Marines I'd like to see one more time.'

 

'Yes, Ma'am, At your service.'

 

She headed for the World War I section, stopping at a stone. She picked one of the bunches out of my arm and laid it on top of the stone. She murmured something I couldn't quite make out.

 

The name on the marble was; Donald S. Davidson, USMC, France 1918. She turned away and made a straight line for the World War II section, stopping at one stone. I saw a tear slowly tracking its way down her cheek. She put a bunch on a stone; the name was; Stephen X. Davidson, USMC, 1943. She went up the row a ways and laid another bunch on a stone; Stanley J. Wieserman, USMC, 1944. She paused for a second, 'Two more, son, and we'll be done'

 

I almost didn't say anything, but, 'Yes, Ma'am, Take your time.'

 

She looked confused. 'Where's the Vietnam section, son? I seem to have lost my way.' I pointed with my chin. 'That way, Ma'am.' 'Oh!' she chuckled quietly. 'Son, me and old age ain't too friendly.' She headed down the walk I'd pointed at. She stopped at a couple of stones before she found the ones she wanted.

 

She placed a bunch on Larry Wieserman, USMC, 1968, and the last one on Darrel Wieserman, USMC, 1970. She stood there and murmured a few words...... I still couldn't make out.

 

'OK, son, I'm finished. Get me back to my car and you can go home.'

 

'Yes, Ma'am. If I may ask, were those your kinfolk?'

 

She paused. 'Yes, Donald Davidson was my father; Stephen was my uncle; Stanley was my husband; Larry and Darrel were our sons. All killed in action, all Marines.' She stopped, whether she had finished, or couldn't finish, I just don't know.

 

She made her way to her car, slowly, and painfully.

 

I waited for a polite distance to come between us....... and then double-timed it over to Kevin waiting by the car. 'Get to the 'Out'-gate QUICK!, I have something I've JUST got to do.' Kevin started to say something, but saw the look I gave him. He broke the rules to get us there down the service road. We beat her.

 

She hadn't made it around the rotunda yet.

 

'Kevin.......... stand to attention next to the gate post. Follow my lead.' I humped it across the drive to the other post.

 

When the Cadillac came puttering around from the hedges and began the short straight traverse to the gate, I called in my best gunny's voice: 'TehenHut! Present Haaaarms!' I have to hand it to Kevin, he never blinked an eye; full dress  attention and a salute that would make his DI proud.

 

She drove through that gate with two old worn-out soldiers giving her a send off she deserved, for service rendered to her country, and for knowing Duty, Honor and Sacrifice

 

I am not quite sure, but I think I saw............ a BIG salute returned from that Cadillac!

 

Instead of 'The End'.... just think of 'Taps'. Please let me share a favorite prayer: 'Lord, keep our servicemen and women safe, whether they serve at home or overseas. Hold them in Your loving hands and protect them as they protect us.'

 

Let's all keep those currently serving and those who have gone before, in our thoughts. They are the reason for the many freedoms we enjoy.

 

'In God We Trust!'

 

Sorry about your monitor, it made mine blurry too!

 

I'm sure you might want to pass this one along to a few friends. . Semper Fi,

 

 

A veteran is someone who, at one point in his life wrote a blank check Made payable to 'The United States of America ' for an amount of 'up to and including my life'. That is Honor, and there are way too many people in This country who no longer understand

 

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Six Boys & Thirteen Hands
Posted On 10/01/2008 17:45:27
Find the time to read this, you might need a kleenex - this brings the statue alive.

 
            &nb sp;       Six Boys And Thirteen Hands... 

                    Each year I am hired to go to
Washington, DC, with the eighth grade class from Clinton, WI where I grew
up, to videotape their trip. I greatly enjoy visiting our nation's capitol,
and each year I take some special memories back with me This fall's trip
was especially memorable.

                    On the last night of our trip, we
stopped at the Iwo Jima memorial. This memorial is the largest bronze statue
in the world and depicts one of the most famous photographs in history --
that of the six brave soldiers raising the American Flag at the top of a
rocky hill   on the island of Iwo Jima, Japan, during WW II. 

                    Over one hundred students and
chaperones piled off the buses and headed towards the memorial. I noticed a
solitary figure at the base of the statue, and as I got closer he asked,
'Where are you guys from?' 

                    I told him that we were from Wisconsin. 'Hey, I'm a
cheese head, too! Come gather around, Cheese heads,
and I will tell you a story.' 

                    (James Bradley just happened to be
in Washington, DC, to speak at the memorial the following day. He was there
that night to say good night to his dad, who had passed away. He was just
about to leave when he saw the buses pull up. I videotaped him as he spoke
to us, and received his permission to share what he said from my videotape.
It is one thing to tour the incredible monuments filled with history in
Washington, DC, but it is quite another to get the kind of insight we
received that night.) 

                    When all had gathered around, he
reverently began to speak. (Here are his words that night.)

                    'My name is James Bradley and I'm
from Antigo, Wisconsin. My dad is on that statue, and I just wrote a book
called 'Flags of Our Fathers' which is #5 on the New York Times Best Seller
list right now. It is the story of the six boys you see behind me.

                    'Six boys raised the flag. The first
guy putting the pole in the ground is Harlon Block.   Harlon was an
all-state football player. He enlisted in the Marine Corps with all the
senior members of his football team. They were off to play another type of
game. A game called 'War.' But it didn't turn out to be a game.   Harlon, at
the age of 21, died with his intestines in his hands. I don't say that to
gross you out, I say that because there are people who stand in front of
this statue and talk about the glory of war.  You guys need to know that
most of the boys in Iwo Jima were 17, 18, and 19 years old - and it was
so hard that the ones who did make it home never even would talk to their
families about it.

                    (He pointed to the statue) 'You see
this next guy? That's Rene Gagnon from New Hampshire. If you took Rene's
helmet off at the   moment this photo was taken and looked in the webbing of
that helmet, you would find a photograph.... a photograph of his girlfriend.
Rene put that in there for protection because he was scared. He was 18 years
old. It was just boys who won the battle of Iwo Jima Boys. Not old men. 

                    'The next guy here, the third guy in
this tableau, was Sergeant Mike Strank. Mike is my hero He was the hero of
all these guys. They called him the 'old man' because he was so old. He was
already 24. When Mike would motivate his boys in training camp, he didn't
say, 'Let's go kill some Japanese' or 'Let's die for our country.' He knew
he was talking to little boys ... Instead he would say, 'You do what I say,
and I'll get you home to your mothers.' 

                    'The last guy on this side of the
statue is Ira Hayes, a Pima Indian from Arizona. Ira Hayes was one who
walked off Iwo Jima. He went into the White House with my dad. President
Truman told him, 'You're a hero.' He told reporters, 'How can I feel like a
hero when 250 of my buddies hit the island with me and only 27 of us walked
off alive?' 

                    So you take your class at school,
250 of you spending a year together having fun, doing everything together.
Then all 250 of you hit the beach, but only 27 of  your classmates walk off
alive. That was Ira Hayes. He had images of horror in his mind. Ira Hayes
carried the pain home with him and eventually died dead drunk, face down at
the age of 32 (ten years after this picture was taken).

                    'The next guy, going around the
statue, is Franklin Sousley from   Hilltop, Kentucky. A fun-lovin' hillbilly
boy.  His best friend, who is now 70, told me, 'Yeah, you know, we took two
cows up on the porch of the Hilltop General Store. Then we strung wire
across the stairs so the cows couldn't get down. Then we fed them Epsom
salts. Those cows crapped all night.' Yes, he was a fun-lovin' hillbilly
boy. Franklin died on Iwo Jima at the age of 19. When the telegram came to
tell his mother that he was dead, it went to the Hilltop General Store.  A
barefoot boy ran that telegram up to

                    his mother's farm. The neighbors could hear her scream
all night and into the morning. Those neighbors lived a quarter of a mile away. 

                    'The next guy, as we continue to go
around the statue, is my dad, John Bradley from Antigo, Wisconsin, where I
was raised.. My dad lived until 1994, but he would never give interviews.
When Walter Cronkite's producers or the New York Times would call, we were
trained as little kids to say 'No, I'm sorry, sir, my dad's not here. He is
in Canada fishing. No, there is no phone there, sir. No, we don't know when
he is coming back.' My dad never fished or even went to Canada. Usually, he
was sitting there right at the table eating his Campbell's soup. But we had
to tell the press that

                    he was out fishing. He didn't want to talk to the press.

                    'You see, like Ira Hayes, my dad
didn't see himself as a hero. Everyone thinks these guys are heroes, 'cause
they are in a photo and on a monument.  My dad knew better. He was a medic.
John Bradley from Wisconsin was a caregiver.  In Iwo Jima he probably held
over 200 boys as they died.  And when boys died in Iwo Jima, they writhed
and screamed, without any medication or help with the pain.

                    'When I was a little boy, my third
grade teacher told me that my dad was a hero. When I went home and told my
dad that, he looked at me and said, 'I want you always to remember that the
heroes of Iwo Jima are the guys who did not come back. Did NOT come back.' 

                    'So that's the story about six nice
young boys.. Three died on Iwo Jima, and three came back as national heroes.
Overall, 7,000 boys died on Iwo Jima in the worst battle in the history of
the Marine Corps. My voice is giving out, so I will end here. Thank you for
your time.'

                    Suddenly, the monument wasn't just a
big old piece of metal with a flag sticking out of the top. It came to life
before our eyes with the heartfelt words of a son who did indeed have a
father who was a hero. Maybe not a hero for the reasons most people would
believe, but a hero nonetheless. 

                    We need to remember that God created
this vast and glorious world for us to live in, freely, but also at great
sacrifice.

                    Let us never forget from the
Revolutionary War to the current War on Terrorism and all the wars
in-between that sacrifice was made for our freedom. 

                    Remember to pray praises for this
great country of ours and also pray for those still in murderous unrest
around the world.

                    STOP and thank God for being alive
and being free at someone else's sacrifice.

                    God Bless You and God Bless America.


                    REMINDER: Everyday that you can wake
up free, it's going to be a great day. 

                    One thing I learned while on tour with my 8th grade students in
DC that is not mentioned here is . . that if you look at the statue very closely
and count the number of 'hands' raising the flag, there are 13. When the
man who made the statue was asked why there were 13, he simply said
the 13th hand was the hand of God. 

                    Great story - worth your time - worth every American's time

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Rules for Non-Military
Posted On 09/25/2008 19:12:14

I hope this does not offend anyone. I just wanted to pass it on.

Rules for the Non -Military

Dear Civilians, 'We know that the current state of affairs in our great nation has many civilians up in arms and excited to join the military. For those of you who can't join, you can still lend a hand. Here are a few of the areas where we would like your assistance:

1. The next time you see any adults talking (or wearing a hat) during the playing of the National Anthem - kick their ass.

2.When you witness, firsthand, someone burning the American Flag in protest - kick their ass.

3.Regardless of the rank they held while they served, pay the highest amount of respect to all veterans. If you see anyone doing otherwise, quietly pull them aside and explain how these veterans fought for the very freedom they bask in every second. Enlighten them on the many sacrifices these veterans made to make this Nation great. Then hold them down while a disabled veteran kicks their ass.

4.(GUYS) If you were never in the military, DO NOT pretend that you were. Wearing battle dress uniforms (BDUs) or Jungle Fatigues, telling others that you used to be 'Special Forces,' and collecting GI Joe memorabilia, might have been okay when you were seven years old. Now, it will only make you look stupid and get your ass kicked.

5.Next time you come across an Air Force member, do not ask them, 'Do you fly a jet?' Not everyone in the Air Force is a pilot. Such ignorance deserves an ass-kicking (children are exempt).

6.If you witness someone calling the US Coast Guard 'non-military', inform them of their mistake - and kick their ass.

7.Next time Old Glory (the US flag) prances by during a parade, get on your damn feet and pay homage to her by placing your hand over your heart. Quietly thank the military member or veteran lucky enough to be carrying her - of course, failure to do either of those could earn you a severe ass-kicking.

8.Don't try to discuss politics with a military member or a veteran. We are Americans, and we all bleed the same, regardless of our party affiliation. Our Chain of Command is to include our Commander-In-Chief (CinC). The President (for those who didn't know) is our CinC regardless of political party. We have no inside track on what happens inside those big important buildings where all those representatives meet All we know is that when those civilian representatives screw up the situation, they call upon the military to go straighten it out. If you keep asking us the same stupid questions repeatedly, you will get your ass kicked!

9.'Your mama wears combat boots' never made sense to me - stop saying it! If she did, she would most likely be a vet and therefore could kick your ass!

10. Bin Laden and the Taliban are not Communists, so stop saying 'Let's go kill those Commies!' And stop asking us where he is! Crystal balls are not standard issue in the military. That reminds me- if you see anyone calling those damn psychic phone numbers, let me know, so I can go kick their ass!

11. 'Flyboy' (Air Force), 'Jarhead' (Marines), 'Grunt' (Army), 'Squid' (Navy), 'Puddle Jumpers' (Coast Guard), etc., are terms of endearment we use describing each other. Unless you are a service member or vet, you have not earned the right to use them.. Using them could get your ass kicked.

12. Last, but not least, whether or not you become a member of the military, support our troops and their families. Every Thanksgiving and religious holiday that you enjoy with family and friends, please remember that there are literally thousands of soldiers, sailors, marines and airmen far from home wishing they could be with their families. Thank God for our military and the sacrifices they make every day. Without them, our country would get it's ass kicked.' 'It's the Veteran, not the reporter who has given us the freedom of the press.' 'It's the Veteran, not the poet, who has given us the freedom of speech.' 'It's the Veteran, not the campus organizer, who gives us the freedom to demonstrate.' 'It's the Military who salutes the flag, who serves beneath the flag, and whose coffin is draped by the flag, who allows the protester to burn the flag.'

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How Could You?
Posted On 08/21/2008 13:12:13

HOW COULD YOU?

 

A man in Grand Rapids, Michigan incredibly took out a $7000 full page ad in the paper to present the following essay to the people of his community.

 

HOW COULD YOU? By Jim Willis, 2001

When I was a puppy, I entertained you with my antics and made you laugh. You called me your child, and despite a number of chewed shoes and a couple of murdered throw pillows, I became your best friend. Whenever I was "bad," you'd shake your finger at me and ask "How could you?" -- but then you'd relent and roll me over for a belly rub.

 

My housebreaking took a little longer than expected, because you were terribly busy, but we worked on that together. I remember those nights of nuzzling you in bed and listening to your confidences and secret dreams, and I believed that life could not be any more perfect.

 

We went for long walks and runs in the park, car rides, stops for ice cream

(I only got the cone because "ice cream is bad for dogs" you said), and I took long naps in the sun waiting for you to come home at the end of the day.

 

Gradually, you began spending more time at work and on your career, and more time searching for a human mate. I waited for you patiently, comforted you through heartbreaks and disappointments, never chided you about bad decisions, and romped with glee at your homecomings, and when you fell in love.

 

She, now your wife, is not a "dog person" -- still I welcomed her into our home, tried to show her affection, and obeyed her. I was happy because you were happy. Then the human babies came along and I shared your excitement. I was fascinated by their pinkness, how they smelled, and I wanted to mother them, too. Only she and you worried that I might hurt them, and I spent most of my time banished to another room, or to a dog crate.

 

Oh, how I wanted to love them, but I became a "prisoner of love." As they began to grow, I became their friend. They clung to my fur and pulled themselves up on wobbly legs, poked fingers in my eyes, investigated my ears, and gave me kisses on my nose. I loved everything about them and their touch -- because your touch was now so infrequent -- and I would've defended them with my life if need be. I would sneak into their beds and listen to their worries and secret dreams, and together we waited for the sound of your car in the driveway. There had been a time, when others asked you if you had a dog, that you produced a photo of me from your wallet and told them stories about me. These past few years, you just answered "yes" and changed the subject.

 

I had gone from being "your dog" to "just a dog," and you resented every expenditure on my behalf. Now, you have a new career opportunity in another city, and you and they will be moving to an apartment that does not allow pets. You've made the right decision for your "family," but there was a time when I was your only family

I was excited about the car ride until we arrived at the animal shelter. It smelled of dogs and cats, of fear, of hopelessness. You filled out the paperwork and said "I know you will find a good home for her." They shrugged and gave you a pained look. They understand the realities facing a middle-aged dog, even one with "papers." You had to pry your son's fingers loose from my collar as he screamed "No, Daddy! Please don't let them take my dog!" And I worried for him, and what lessons you had just taught him about friendship and loyalty, about love and responsibility, and about respect for all life.

 

You gave me a good-bye pat on the head, avoided my eyes, and politely refused to take my collar and leash with you. You had a deadline to meet and now I have one, too. After you left, the two nice ladies said you probably knew about your upcoming move months ago and made no attempt to find me another good home. They shook their heads and asked

 

"How could you?"

 

They are as attentive to us here in the shelter as their busy schedules allow. They feed us, of course, but I lost my appetite days ago. At first, whenever anyone passed my pen, I rushed to the front, hoping it was you that you had changed your mind -- that this was all a bad dream... or I hoped it would at least be someone who cared, anyone who might save me.

 

When I realized I could not compete with the frolicking for attention of happy puppies, oblivious to their own fate, I retreated to a far corner and waited. I heard her footsteps as she came for me at the end of the day, and I padded along the aisle after her to a separate room.

 

A blissfully quiet room. She placed me on the table and rubbed my ears, and told me not to worry. My heart pounded in anticipation of what was to come, but there was also a sense of relief. The prisoner of love had run out of days.

 

As is my nature, I was more concerned about her. The burden which she bears weighs heavily on her, and I know that, the same way I knew your every mood. She gently placed a tourniquet around my foreleg as a tear ran down her cheek. I licked her hand in the same way I used to comfort you so many years ago. She expertly slid the hypodermic needle into my vein. As I felt the sting and the cool liquid coursing through my body, I lay down sleepily, looked into her kind eyes and murmured "How could you?"

 

Perhaps because she understood my dog speak, she said "I'm so sorry."

 

She hugged me, and hurriedly explained it was her job to make sure I went to a better place, where I wouldn't be ignored or abused or abandoned, or have to fend for myself -- a place of love and light so very different from this earthly place. And with my last bit of energy, I tried to convey to her with a thump of my tail that my "How could you?" was not directed at her.

It was directed at you, My Beloved Master, I was thinking of you. I will think of you and wait for you forever. May everyone in your life continue to show you so much loyalty.

 

A Note from the Author: If "How Could You?" brought tears to your eyes as you read it, as it did to mine as I wrote it, it is because it is the composite story of the millions of formerly "owned" pets who die each year in American & Canadian animal shelters. Please use this to help educate, on your websites, in newsletters, on animal shelter and vet office bulletin boards. Tell the public that the decision to add a pet to the family is an important one for life, that animals deserve our love and sensible care, that finding another appropriate home for your animal is your responsibility and any local humane society or animal welfare league can offer you good advice, and that all life is precious. Please do your part to stop the killing, and encourage all spay & neuter campaigns in order to prevent unwanted animals.

 

Please pass this on to everyone, not to hurt them or make them sad, but it could save maybe, even one, unwanted pet.

Remember...They love UNCONDITIONALLY.

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