This is an edited/updated version of a Blog I posted in 2019:
Good morning, all. I've now been a member here for almost 13 years! Wow. Hard to believe. When NOTH first started, all I knew about Cloudeight was its Stationery and newsletter. I learned about the Hill from the newsletter--and joined only 6 weeks after NOTH was formed. The best thing I've ever done online! I've learned so much from them.
One of the first things I do in the morning is open my NOTH account. Since Admin is busy with a full time job & other Cloudeight duties, as Staff I'm the 'middle person'--I take complaints & either do something about them or pass it on to Admin, etc. It's my 'job' to remind people of the Rules here.
What I have always liked about the Hill is that we can be 'ourselves'. Yes, at some point, I did try a competitive site. Not only was it 'impersonal', but it was rather risque--definitely not for me.
NOTH is a 'family site'. We have members' grandchildren also 'visiting' and some even have accounts here. And our median age is maybe in the 70. Or higher, lol. (Just guessing!)
As I posted in a Bulletin: with me, what you see is what you get. I see no reason to hide who I am.
My name is Dianne...which all the 'old timers' know; and I usually put Altara/Dianne on my 'sigs' (signature tags). Even though I don't "take" a very good photo, I almost always use my picture as my Profile Pic. Of course, since I have other pages as well, I sometimes use an 'avatar' there, just to be different, lol. It's fine if you prefer an Avatar; but I don't. I like to know 'who' I'm friends with, who I'm talking to, etc. When I answer forum posts, it's nice to be able to use a 'real' first name--so that people realize I do "know" them.
My personal preference is an open page where everyone can leave a comment; however, I've had to monitor that because some people simply don't pay attention to what we've 'suggested' over the years. Most of us 'old timers' prefer maybe 1 graphic per comment (yes, even those like me who really love graphics!)--and 'smaller' (not HUGE) graphics, which stretch out a person's page if they aren't using the 'limit code'. While I appreciate all comments, I still prefer a 'limit'. Some of us (not me, lol) even prefer a private message, rather than a bunch of graphics on our page. And many of us now use Bulletins rather than leaving individual comments.
I believe our actual 'oldest' member is now 99 years old! That's amazing. She actually joined NOTH about 8 days before I did--so she's one of the Originals. Now, this doesn't include people who 'say' they are over 100, lol. I'm going by 'real age'.
Now, anyone who has looked at either of my pages will see that I 'limit' friends. I wish I had time/energy to visit each friend daily & leave a comment; but between health problems, other 'real life' things, & all I do here, I just can't. That's why it's extremely rare for me to add 'friends', on either page.
Important PS--I do recommend not putting the names & ages of all your children/grandchildren on your page! Or going into detail about all of your life experiences. But otherwise, I see no problem in listing your 'likes, hobbies', etc. I look at things like that, to decide who to invite to different groups. I made a 'graphic' that shows my basic info: 2 kids, 3 grandkids, and my main hobbies. In order for anyone outside of NOTH to 'see' your info, they'd have to do a 'search' for your username. So it's not very likely to happen by 'chance'.